Coaching is thriving despite the recession

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Motivated?

I was wondering how motivated your team are right now? Do you know how they get motivated? You see many managers are under the impression that they are motivators, which is a fine endeavour, its just that motivation is an inside job. What do I mean by this; well motivation is an internal state and therefore comes from whithin. So as leaders what can you do to ensure you people are operating at peak performance? Well the first thing is to know how they feel motivated, what kind of environment do they need to be motivated in? Our Motivational Maps are the steps to understanding Motivation in the work place...if you would like to know more...drop me a line Michael@professionalexcellence.co.uk

Creating Memories for the Future

Creating Memories for the Future

Before he had finished the exercise you could clearly see, he now had a strategy that he would use time and again to visualise and create his future in exquisite detail.

I shouldn’t have been surprised; this was exactly the reason that I include the Memories for the Future exercise in my NLP for Business Leaders seminar.

In fact it is a strategy that I have used many times. It was the tool that I used when I wrote Take the Luck out of Selling and it was the strategy I used to create my vision for our Franchise Business.

Someone once said...This only works and this visualisation strategy does just that...It only works!

So how do you do it? Create memories for the future I mean.

Firstly you need to have something in mind that you would like to achieve. Now if you are going to do this exercise properly you might as well choose something huge and audacious. Perhaps something even life changing.

Now imagine yourself on a time line, with your future out in front of you and your past behind you.
Visualise a place in the future where you have already achieved your audacious goal. Notice where on your timeline that is and walk out until you reach the point at which you have achieved it.

Now use the power of your imagination and pay attention to what you are seeing at the time of achievement. Notice what you are hearing , feeling and experiencing. Make the memory bright and as vivid as you can.

Now turn around and look at where you have come from, which is now in your past. Notice the journey you have made. Look at the milestones you have passed through.

Now walk back down your time line and appreciate the milestones.

When you get back to the point at which your journey started, turn around and look to the place where you achieved this wonderful goal and develop a real sense of appreciation for having now achieved it and what it has done for you.

From this starting point, now turn around and look into your past. You are looking for resources. Things that you have used before perhaps and have now stopped using. Or perhaps it is someone that you used to turn to before for help, advice or encouragement. What did they teach you that you could now use as a resource.

Walk back down your time line to the point where this asset is and pick it up. When you have arrived at this time just spend a few moments thinking about how you are going to use it.

Return to the point where you started your journey and then walk along your time line again, to the point where you have achieved this incredible goal and notice as you walk down the path how this resource or asset is affecting the journey. Is it making the journey shorter? Is it making it easier perhaps? Or maybe there are fewer milestones?

Now when you reach the point in your future again, where you have already achieved this amazing life changing goal, once again pay attention to what you are seeing, what you can hear, feel and are experiencing. Make it vivid bright and real. Also notice who else is sharing this experience of satisfaction at having had achieved this with you. What are they saying, how are they encouraging you.

Now you have created a more compelling future, think ....what else could you use the incredibly powerful tool for?

The next NLP for Business Leaders seminar is on 27th October, Endeavour House, Stansted.
For more information call: 0800 9173 266 or email: office@professionalexcellence.co.uk

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Last week I told some of my facebook friends about an amazing and inspiring video with Tony Robbins and top coach to internet marketers John Reese discussing how he made the mental shift to enable him to go from 'average Joe' to making over one million dollars in less than 24 hours! Some of you were kind enough to contact me to let me know how valuable it was to you. Well here is the link to part 2 of the interview>>

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I was recently working with some young sales people from one of my client companies and the question of how do you ensure that you get people in the right state so they receptive to buy.

Well one of the best ways to think about this is to change the moment. What you do can have a remarkable effect on the people you want to influence.

Try this simple exercise: Ask a friend about the best summer day they have ever experienced and then pay attention to what happens next. What you will see is the external effects of the change in state that is happening on the inside. You will see a striking change in her physiology and demeanour.

She may well look up at first as she tries to find the internal pictures of that day. She might lose focus as she starts to experience the emotions she felt at the time. her speech might get slower at first and then as she gets back into the moment the pace quickens as she fully experiences the memory of the day. She will then perhaps start to explain the wonderful experience.

By the time she has finished she will grinning and feeling as though has found something she lost a long time ago. She may have generated enough emotional change to have become a teary eyed.

And all you did was ask a single question. You changed her thoughts, her feelings and her posture with just a question.

One carefully planned question is sometimes all it takes to change someone’s state for the better.

You don't have to force them into a resourceful state. Just set the proper conditions and let their mind do the work to change their moment.

Most people are unaware of the state they are in. They spend their day walking around in their problems. They view life through their perceived limitations.

When you change the moment for someone you change their perspective, leading them from where they are right now to where they need to be to be more resourceful.

When you change their perspective people will become more receptive and attentive to your ideas and proposition. Who knows they may even be grateful.